The Infamous LastPost

Gosh, I haven't been on here for a long time. Almost a year, I think. My computer doesn't like the game, and I can't log into the forum without the game, so I haven't tried to get on for quite a bit... I also get too distracted to read through all of the posts.

I don't think I've heard either of those stories.

Solotime, I hope your relationship continues to work out. Things may change when you meet her in person, but I hope that if they do change, it's for the better. All I can say about the Philippines is that -edit- my Filipino friend owes me a yo-yo.

 

Nice to see you around again MonkeyEm Hope all has been well for you.

 

@Dienstag & @bygo_cris
I really appreciate the both of you for taking time to respond to my question.

I have no plans to give up after all the amount of time I have invested with getting to know her.
Plus the feelings I have for her are of course genuine. It not's like we used the advance word "love" right away.
I used it first and she used it probably ten days later. This was of course after we have accomplished Three months and I think two weeks together. Now back on topic, I told her I wouldn't give up and she told me she won't too. I do believe her because lets just say yesterday I made her upset. Wasn't done intentionally or to test her. I should have just shut my mouth and went to sleep.
She ignored me until the next day. (2AM till 8PM) When she came back online, she was planning on skipping but I kept explaining I am sorry and I regret what I done. Took maybe three hours to make her feel somewhat better. Now today she is back to normal I believe.
I was chatting to her from 7AM till 12PM.

You're correct on this, I have noticed that the different culture thing can sometimes spark something.

And I agree that the best thing to do is never be so jumpy on the person. You should always allow them to explain things before getting upset. But one thing I told her, in our relationship we don't do the "blame game". Which means someone isn't going to take the whole blaming, in fact both are at fault. This has came in handy many times.

 

solo - You sound so mature and all grown up!......way ahead of most young men! I've told my hubby, for many years now, that a simple "I'm sorry" would end most disagreements or mistakes that have upset me.
The other point I'd like to make(If I can?)....is that most of communication is "non-verbal". Meaning...the tone of our voice, the expression on our face or body language, hand gestures etc. adds to or enhances what we are trying to say. Even with skype, a bit of that is lost.....b/c of the lag time.
I truly wish you both the best of luck....and enjoy the bloom of love. It is a wonderful experience!

 

Good luck solotime I am happy for your good news

I finished my school exams on Wednesday and now I am completely free to enjoy summer
I will know how I did next Wednesday but I think I did very well.
I wish everyone to have a happy summer with warm weather, fun and far and foremost with health

 

Awww, now I feel so special
She told me I act very mature too.

 

solo - That's because you are special!!!!!!

 

Now I can reply much more advance. I just started working on my message at 9PM and I saw on my phone she texted me to do Skype. No matter what you're doing, you must answer the phone call or Skype call. Many times she called when I was eating or brushing my teeth. We just eat during the phone call.

I'm glad to hear you can now enjoy the summer without school exams to bother you!
But don't you prefer cold weather?
However, thank you very much for being happy for me! It really is a great feeling to have someone who makes you very happy inside.

@Brookeham, You're a very supportive Farmer friend
Too bad we couldn't send country coins, I would gladly share one of my millions with you.
I'm only at 141 million.


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This is very true!! I noticed that last night. But the audio comes on time while the video is delayed by like two or three seconds.

 

What sweet news solo, Im glad to meet young men with the confidence in their life and decisions to share them like you are. I have been married for a long time, and just reading your story takes me back to our begining and makes me kind of giddy, (but thats as far as that goes~keep it between us!) Never did care for PDA myself, but didn't mind others showing their happiness. I hope I can continue to catch up with you and that all ends blissful and exactly as you dream for! Blessings to you both~

 

solo - Awwww your nice complement is reward enough...plus I consider you a supportive farmer friend as well! But....how in the world did you amass so many cc's??? Do you never buy anything???
farmerlily22 - I know what you mean....hearing of young love...does take me back as well. It's so sweet & nice to hear. I'm grateful that solo is generous to share it with us....and so mature to ask advice.

 

@Brookeham, I bring in like 200k just from tree fruits each day.
As for buying, I don't waste CC's on stuff I can grow. My barn is already stocked up on crops.

@farmerlily22, Reading your message is very sweat

Everyday I do hope for the best. Each day that passes by, it feels like we're so much closer than before. She is very open with her feelings now. I always admit mine even if my face turns red on Skype

This part is just random.
I know not to skip time with being mad at her. Because you can only get so much time out of a day for communicating.

 

Yes indeed solo I prefer cold weather But I got enough this year It even snowed
But in summer I would like warm weather because tourists come to Greece to enjoy warm weather so I want what they want
Summer in Greek is καλοκαίρι(καλός+καιρός) and it means good weather!

Edit: Happy father's day to all fathers here!

 

Hahaha, yeah I had enough cold weather too. Would be so nice to just be able to move to a warm state in the USA. For now it's my dream that one day I'll move to a new state like; California, Texas, or Florida. I think I should research them for which would be best choice. I heard Florida you make less money and in California it's more expensive. Unsure about Texas but enjoy watching the American TV show called "King of The Hill" which takes place in Arlen, Texas. From what I seen, it looks more like a very hot state. I told my girl that I want a warm state. She said it's fine if I let her experience snow. She has never seen it in real life before.

 

I know also a person who has never seen snow. He is also from Asia and he posts in the forum.
You can ask about these states to forum members who live there, search them here.

 

I almost beat you yesterday.
12 inch and a half inches.



@Arielh, Salamat (Means thank you)
I found the person you mean. I never thought about posting in that thread asking about Texas. I really should do that.

 

solo - Ahhh it's beautiful!!( The rainbow trout!!!) LOL I wish I was at the lake fishing!!! Have you considered Northern or Central California??? These areas are not as expensive...yet they are near mountains or the coast. If you would like to discuss it further, you can igm me.

 

It sure is a beautiful trout. But I'm disappointed in the size because I didn't beat you. However, I estimate one that is around 15 inches long still at the bridge I go fishing at. The trout love my bait, I'm at like 16 this year for how many I caught.

I haven't researcher anything about the other states to be honest. I just had them in mind cause I know they're warm. I know many more other states are too, but those ones just didn't interest me. Someday I will look them up when bored. Right now I'm just waiting to hear back from a place I applied to work at. I don't plan on staying long cause I got other things on my mind.

*Added*
Caught this 12 inch trout

 

Just stopping by real quick to ask for prayer... we received news that all of our paperwork went through on the house! Now it goes into price negotiation with a 3rd party hired by the seller's bank. So if it is on your heart to pray, we would appreciate it. Specifically for wisdom in negotiating for hubby and I, as well as a quick closing. Jora's school starts the second week of August, with registration the week before, so I would prefer to get a closing date and to be moved as quickly as possible. Thank you!


The inspection from two weeks ago showed that it needs a new roof, as well as some water issues/leaks that need to be fixed. (Not any major repairs water-wise but things that can't stay unfixed long-term). Since it is a short sale, it basically means the owners have negotiated with their bank to reduce their payments and get permission to sell the house for less than what it is worth. (This helps prevent them from going into foreclosure and ruining their credit). It also means there are a lot of extra hoops to jump through and details to handle that might not normally happen in a house sale.

So many posts to reply to!! I have been reading here as I've had time, and will stop by again later to write a better reply. Thanks again for your prayers!
{{big hugs to all}} CJ

 

CJAT - Prayers and fingers & toes crossed that all goes through without a hitch/glitch for your new house! I believe "short sales" have improved over the years. Banks don't want to hang on to properties for too long...so it has sped up the process. So....what is the house like? Is it cute? 2 story?.....near Jora's school? How exciting!!! You haven't been the main "Woman of the house" in a long while.

solo - Love the rainbow pic!!! Good luck with the job application!!

I am trying to endure this heat wave we're experiencing! It will be 107F or 41.6C here today!! The good news....our air conditioner is working fine and the pool is finally warm enough to swim comfortably. We are planning on escaping to the lake/mountains this weekend for the 4th of July!!! It only gets to 80-85 up there. Yes, solo, we plan on fishing....so maybe I can up my catch # from 1...
Have a Happy & Safe 4th of July everyone!

 

@CJAT,
I will keep you in mind and I hope everything go's fine!
A new roof can be kind of expensive. I would suggest that you pay for the materials and hire the roofer to install it. Which means you're paying him for the labor it takes to install the new roof. You're better off removing the old shingles if you want a better roof life.
(I assist my dad with his small construction business. Two months ago we did a roof that took 40 bungles of shingles.)

Well, I went for the appointment today for my new possible job. I had to take a drug test. I know I passed that instantly
In two weeks from today they will let me know if I get hired on.

@Brookeham,
But you won't catch up to me. I'm a professional fisherman (Only pretending)
I hope you have lots of fun at the lake! I still haven't gotten a chance to fish the
Susquehanna river for some big channel catfish. The river is at nine feet deep. I need
to wait till it drops to around two feet.